My website is one year old. For the past year I have been sharing my thoughts, feelings and stories with people around the world. I have exposed my personal thoughts to judgement. Thankfully, most people have been kind with their comments and opinions. Those of you who like what I say read more of my posts. Those who do not like what they read usually just move on. My website and social media platforms have a few loyal followers and I have become a contributor to some other awesome websites such as www.losethecape.com, www.catholicmommyblogs.com, www.togetherfamilies.com, and www.bleepingmotherhood.com I am grateful for these partnerships as well as my exposure on topmommyblogs.
This is a diverse list of websites, I know. But it shows a lot about who I am. I am many things. I am a professional in the childcare business. I am a new Catholic who is learning more each day about how incredible it is to have faith. I am a wife and mother to four children. I am sometimes a put-together mother who can offer some advice because in my thirteen years of parenting, “I’ve been there”. I am sometimes a mother who feels like she has nothing together and needs advice from others.
I am at all times a mother who tries her best but is still convinced she’s screwing up her kids and loves to connect with other parents who might feel the same way. I am honest and real and I love my family, shopping, and relaxing with a whiskey or a wine.
I blog for many reasons. Here are my top ten.
Top Ten Reasons Why I Blog
- I’m alone with my thoughts. I have a husband, four children and a dog. I work full-time at a childcare centre where there are tiny humans, staff and parents coming and going all day long. I also have a part-time job as a college instructor and on weekends, I spend my time at busy arenas. My mind collects a massive amount of information throughout the week and is stored there until it can be released when I have “time to think”.
- I connect with other parents. I have made some pretty great “blogger friends” through my website and people have reached out to me from all parts of the world. It helps to know there are others who feel the same way you do about raising children.
- I share my feelings and my life with others so they don’t feel bad about themselves. One of my most popular posts was “Mommy Mistakes”. I guess people really like to see or read about how people mess up. That would explain the viral “epic fail” videos and such. We all make mistakes. None of us are perfect. I think parents like to hear that other parents are making mistakes as well. We learn from them and move on.
- I’m learning. I research. Not only about children and parenting but how to run my own website. A year ago I had no idea how to create a website, add a plug-in, gain e-mail subscribers, add affiliate links, etc. I owe a lot of my new-found knowledge to fellow writer Alexa from Write, Publish, Sell with Alexa Bigwarfe.
- It’s my way to vent. It’s an outlet. It’s therapy. I always, always feel better after I blog.
- It makes me happy. Laundry and dishes do not make me happy. So instead, I blog. I guess that can also be described as avoidance or procrastination…
- I get free stuff. I have received some pretty awesome products in exchange for reviews and blog posts with affiliate links. I have also been paid for a several blog posts I have written which is an added bonus.
- Everyone needs a hobby. Some people exercise. Some people sew or do crafts. I blog. All I need is a computer and a few minutes alone with my thoughts. Sitting down in front of the computer with my thoughts is something I really look forward to.
- My kids can look back and read the crazy stories their mother wrote. I may not have an amazing scrapbook for all four of my children, but I do have some published stories and letters to them that they can read when they are older.
- It’s my happy place. Oops I already said that in #6. I guess it can’t be said enough. Blogging makes me happy. I always feel better after all the thoughts and stories in my head are transferred to the computer. It releases some instant happiness. If you are a writer or a blogger, can you relate? If you are not a writer, what is your passion? What makes you happy? Find out what it is and go do it. Do more of what makes you happy.